We Were at cafe sushi in Hollywood last a couple of days ago and my Bfreind turned to me and said do you want to move in with me after X-mas !!! he said like think about it. We i love him and he lives in a really nice area of Santa Monica and has a grest job. I just feel like its a bit fast but i will be talking to him in vegas of new years !!! WHAT SHOULD I DO !!!!!!!HELP???
well if your really not ready tell him but if you think that you could learn to live with it and maybe end up liking it which is a possibility then go for it. But always remember that movie sex and the city make sure that you have a place that you could always go to just incase you need to be free of him for a couple days! Or even a place you could go to unless the worst could happen.
January 30th, 2010 at 10:50 pm
tell him the truth!
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January 30th, 2010 at 11:22 pm
well if your really not ready tell him but if you think that you could learn to live with it and maybe end up liking it which is a possibility then go for it. But always remember that movie sex and the city make sure that you have a place that you could always go to just incase you need to be free of him for a couple days! Or even a place you could go to unless the worst could happen.
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January 30th, 2010 at 11:30 pm
Tell him how you feel. Let him know that you love him but your just not ready to move in with him yet. he should understand
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January 31st, 2010 at 12:03 am
Do it move in
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January 31st, 2010 at 12:14 am
Just how old are you? What if you become a mother? Living together is not a good idea. I have seen a lot of problems like that on the tv show "Judge Joe Brown". What you should do is think about your future and what if it does not work out. What if you meet someones else that turns you on better? I would try to get more education or training so that you can support you self if necessary. You will have to decide in what is best for you now, tomorrow, and the future. Good luck
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January 31st, 2010 at 12:27 am
well ask yourself this… first do you have your own place? are you ready to give up your own place? How long have you been with him? Is it a healthy relationship? if your not sure about it then maybe thats a sign to not go through with it. Tell him that you want to wait because it is a big step. Your just not ready to take that step. What was your reaction when he asked you? Were you excited or scared? bottom line is if you really feel like your not ready to move in with him then dont. if he loves you he will understand and respect your decision. Just make sure you dont make it sound like its him thats the reason. And that you just need more time. Good luck. let me know how it goes!!!!
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totally been through the same thing. I didnt go through with it and waited and now everything is Cool.
January 31st, 2010 at 1:08 am
If you are already sleeping over all the time (or vice versa), then you might as well save on the rent and move in. If not, then it’s probably too early to be moving in…you need to know whether you can live with him or not, his habits and so on.
Eventually you may have to go with your gut on this one. If it feels right then take the risk. If not, then wait. In a few months you may be ready.
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January 31st, 2010 at 1:33 am
Need more information about the two of you to give you a good answer..
Do you really love this guy and miss him allot when the two of you are not together ? Do you pretty much live at his place now and stay over all the time ? Have the two of you been together for a long time now as in a few years ? Do you see yourself with this guy 10 years from now and call him a partner mate lover or boyfriend ? Do the two of you get along really good when together and could you see yourself living with this guy ? If you answer yes to most of these questions then yes move in with him
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